Drowning Is Silent: What a Water Emergency Actually Looks Like and How to Respond

Excerpt: Drowning often doesn’t look like the dramatic scene people expect, and it can happen outside summer, too. I explain what signs to watch for, how to help without putting yourself in danger, and why water-safety layers matter around pools, hot tubs, beaches, and lakes.

Drowning doesn’t always look like an emergency

When people imagine drowning, they may picture someone shouting, waving, or splashing hard. In reality, a person who is drowning may be unable to call out or signal for help. Their body is focused on trying to breathe and keep their mouth above water. What looks like quiet play or an awkward swim can be a serious emergency.

The American Red Cross describes water safety as more than swimming ability: it includes recognizing danger, helping safely, and knowing CPR. The CDC identifies drowning as a leading cause of accidental death among young children. It can happen in seconds, including close to home.

And water emergencies aren’t only a summer concern. In early November, people still visit the ocean in San Diego County, while pools, hot tubs, and lakes remain accessible. Some beaches may have reduced or no lifeguard staffing outside peak season. At Lake Elsinore and other open-water areas, conditions can change quickly. Check local conditions and posted warnings, and don’t assume a lifeguard is on duty.

What drowning can look like

A person in distress may not be able to wave or yell. Look for signs such as:

• Head low in the water, with the mouth at or near the surface.
• Glassy, unfocused eyes or a face that looks distressed.
• A nearly vertical posture, with little effective kicking or forward movement.
• Arms pressing down on the water or a motion that resembles climbing an invisible ladder.
• Repeated submerging, gasping, or difficulty keeping the face above water.

Not everyone shows every sign, and a person who can call for help may still be in danger. If someone appears unable to move forward or stay afloat, act promptly.

Children can drown in very shallow water, including buckets, toilets, kiddie pools, and bathtubs. Hot tubs also require close supervision. A brief lapse in attention can be enough.

How to respond while keeping yourself safe

If you see someone in trouble, act quickly, but don’t become a second person who needs rescue.

1. Call for help. Shout to alert others and a lifeguard, if one is present. Call 911 immediately, or direct a specific person to call. Give the dispatcher the exact location and follow their instructions.
2. Reach or throw; don’t go. From a stable position, extend a pole, branch, towel, or other object the person can grab. Or throw a flotation device, such as a life ring. Stay low and brace yourself if possible.
3. Avoid an untrained in-water rescue. Do not jump into the water unless you are trained and properly equipped. A panicked person may grab a rescuer, putting both lives at risk.
4. Get the person out only when it is safe. Ask others to help and use available rescue equipment. Keep yourself out of the water whenever possible.

The Red Cross’s water-safety guidance emphasizes recognizing trouble, getting help, and assisting without putting yourself in danger. Its lifeguarding program prepares lifeguards for aquatic emergencies; beach signs, flags, and lifeguard directions are useful safety information, but they don’t replace your own attention to conditions.

Once the person is out of the water

Check whether the person responds and whether they are breathing normally. If they are unresponsive or not breathing normally, call 911 if that has not already happened, and start CPR. If someone else is there, ask them to get an AED while you begin care.

Follow your current training and the 911 dispatcher’s instructions. Drowning can affect breathing, so rescue breaths are important when you are trained and able to give them. If you can’t give breaths, start chest compressions rather than doing nothing. Use an AED as soon as it is available, following its prompts; dry the person’s chest before applying the pads, and make sure no one is touching them when the device analyzes or delivers a shock.

If the person is breathing, keep them under observation, protect them from getting cold, and get medical guidance, especially after submersion, loss of consciousness, or breathing difficulty. First aid is not a substitute for calling 911 when someone may be seriously hurt.

CPR does not guarantee survival. It can support circulation and breathing while emergency professionals are on the way, but outcomes vary. Call 911 and continue care according to your training and the dispatcher’s directions.

After a water scare: don’t ignore symptoms

A person may seem better after being pulled from the water and still need medical evaluation. Get urgent medical attention for ongoing or worsening symptoms such as persistent coughing, trouble breathing, unusual sleepiness, or extreme fatigue after a water incident.

You may hear the terms “dry drowning” or “secondary drowning.” These are not helpful diagnoses for describing a delayed event. Instead, focus on symptoms and seek medical care if breathing changes or the person seems unwell after a water emergency. When in doubt, contact emergency services or a healthcare professional.

November water can also feel cold, even in Southern California. Sudden immersion in cold water can trigger an involuntary gasp and rapid breathing, making it harder to stay calm and avoid inhaling water. Conditions vary by location and day. Check water and weather conditions, use appropriate flotation, and don’t swim alone or under the influence of alcohol.

Build layers of protection before anyone gets in

No single measure prevents every water emergency. I encourage families and organizations to use several layers:

• Secure access: Use a fence that separates a pool from the house, with a self-latching, self-closing gate. Keep hot tubs covered and secured when not in use.
• Assign a water watcher: Choose one responsible adult to supervise actively and continuously. They should avoid phones, alcohol, and other distractions. Switch watchers deliberately rather than assuming someone else is watching.
• Choose proper flotation: Use a properly fitted, U.S. Coast Guard-approved life jacket for boating and open water. Arm floaties are not life-saving flotation devices.
• Build skills: Swim lessons help, but swimming ability alone does not remove risk. Learn about the setting, check conditions, and swim in lifeguarded areas when possible.
• Learn CPR and first aid: Knowing what to do can help you respond while emergency services are coming.

Practice the response before it’s needed

When an emergency happens, uncertainty can make it harder to act. Practicing CPR, AED use, and first aid can help you recognize the next step and respond more confidently. The American Red Cross and HSI offer training programs. HSI certification is available only when a client specifically requests it.

I’m David Onori, the sole instructor at Code Blue Safety Skills. I travel to your location across San Diego County, Temecula, Murrieta, Menifee, Lake Elsinore, and Rancho Murrieta for mobile, hands-on training. Blended learning combines online modules with an in-person skills session.

I teach First Aid, CPR & AED; Pediatric First Aid & CPR/AED (Pediatric Only); Basic Life Support; Stop Life-Threatening Bleeding; and certification renewals. Classes are appointment-only. To request a class, email or call and include the specific dates you want, along with your location, course, and approximate group size. Near-term options include Friday, November 6, and Monday, November 9, 2026.

Email d.onori@codebluesafetyskills.com or call (951) 669-4177. You can also request training through my contact page.

Sources

• American Red Cross: Water Safety
• American Red Cross: Lifeguarding and Water Safety Training
• CDC: Drowning Prevention
• HSI: CPR, AED, and First Aid Training

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